Yesterday I was sweating over a guy that I'm not that into for not being that into me. Today I am fending off the advances of a guy from 9 months ago who doesn't remember my name but knows he just has to see me again. Even though I have told him no for nine months without fail. Even though I have told him there is absolutely no wiggle room in my no, that we are not looking for the same things and I don't want waste my time with a random hook-up guy. Even when I call him on not knowing my name, he responds with no sense of shame and asks for it again. I ask him how things are going otherwise. He says they are going well and then gets right back to 'I want to see you again.' He is a total man-child. Or a bad puppy. Annoying as hell and endearing because he just can't seem to help himself. I always think I've picked great unequivocal words and that he'll be done with me once and for all. But not so much. I am NOT apparently the great communicator I think I am. I use words like 'no', phrases like 'never going to happen' and another side of 'no' just to top it off. He doesn't respond and I think he's gone. Three months later he's back. Like a bad penny this one.
So I've got 2 out of my 3 whatever this is covered. Wonder if 3 will be the charm. I don't know but I DO know that today was the antidote to yesterday. Ava's got options... Not good options, but Ava's got options.
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